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    root((Giving Feedback))
        Steps["How to criticize"]
            nonviolent("`**Nonviolent Communication**
                1 Observation: indisputable
                2 Feeling: no accusation
                3 Needs
                4 Requests
                (Marshall Rosenberg)`")
            oscar("`**OSCAR**
                Observation/Situation: indisputable
                Consequence
                Alternative
                Result`")
        mindset[Mindset]
            present("`**Feedback is a gift**
                        can be accepted or rejected`")
            primeDirective("`“believe that everyone did the best job they could, given what they knew at the time, their skills and abilities, the resources available, and the situation at hand.“
                        Prime Directive of Agile Retrospective`")
            radicalCandor("`**Radical Candor**
                            Be caring *and* challenging
                            (Kim Scott)`")
        setting[Setting]
            meeting("`**1:1 conversation**
                            no texting,
                            not in public`")
            bio("`**biology**
                            not hungry
                            not tired`")
            noStress("take your time")
            multiRater("360° feedback")
        pos["`positive ≫ negative`"]
            five("“Five to one gets the job done.“ (Flora)")
            sandwich("no “sandwich feedback“")
            timely(timely / scheduled)

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